The Art of No Compromises: Wisdom From My (Nearly) 4-Year Old
The other day, my wife and I were discussing something that has now been lost in the folds of my addled brain. She asked a question that I also can not recall at the moment, but I remember my answer. I had said, “Well,.”
The reason I remember my answer is due to Calli, my four-year-old-tomorrow. Her eyes shot up, looked deep in to mine and said, “Not ‘yes-and-no’. Just yes. It’s always just yes.”
Since her birth, there has been no shortage of wonderful lessons she has given me, but this one gave me some serious thoughts.
Why do we so often settle for yes-and-no?
- Do you love your job?
- Are you where you want to be in life?
- Does every day end with a sense of fulfillment?
I’m certain I could go on and on. Why shouldn’t we be able to give a definitive yes or no? Why shouldn’t we seek out the yeses?
I related in an earlier post how I feel that I am going through a regeneration. I am changing things about my life and myself that I hope will bring a more fulfilling existence to my family as well as to me. Her statement “Not yes and no!” Echoed in my mind as that’s exactly what I am now trying to accomplish: finding the yeses and avoiding the noes.
And above all else, deciding definitively yes or no and not settling.
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