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		<title>Fatherhood Friday: Week In Review</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week has been an absolute whirlwind for our family. As I&#8217;ve mentioned in previous posts, we took Kat down to learn about the People to People student ambassador program, Calli has started to be able to use the potty when we&#8217;re out, and Tristin turned six months old, leading to that all important milestone [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week has been an absolute whirlwind for our family. As I&#8217;ve mentioned in previous posts, we took Kat down to learn about the <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/people_to_people_international" title="People to People International" rel="homepage" href="http://www.ptpi.org/">People to People</a> student ambassador program, Calli has started to be able to use the potty when we&#8217;re out, and Tristin turned six months old, leading to that all important milestone of eating food.</p>
<p>So just as the week was a blur for us, please enjoy this whirlwind photo tour of the weeks highlights!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/calliserpent.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1287 aligncenter" title="calliserpent" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/calliserpent.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="317" /></a></p>
<p>What is Calli sitting on? A stone wall?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/katcalliserpent.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1288" title="katcalliserpent" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/katcalliserpent.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="319" /></a></p>
<p>Nope! This is a sculpture of a serpent named &#8216;Squiggles&#8217;. Squiggles lives at <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/arvada_center_for_the_arts_and_humanities" title="Arvada Center for the Arts and Humanities" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arvada_Center_for_the_Arts_and_Humanities">the Arvada Center</a> of Arts and Humanities in Arvada, Co. Here, Kat helped Calli make it to Squiggles&#8217; head. I&#8217;m not sure how big Squiggles is, but he&#8217;s HUGE! The Arvada Center is where we went to the People to People presentation. We probably could have spent the entire day here&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/daddyslittlejedi1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1290" title="daddyslittlejedi" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/daddyslittlejedi1.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="375" /></a>Tristin looked thoughtfully over his sisters playing on the giant serpent. That&#8217;s Daddy&#8217;s little Jedi!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/katcallitail.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1291" title="katcallitail" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/katcallitail.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="229" /></a>Kat and Calli pose at the tail of the beast.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/tristinaquarium.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1292" title="tristinaquarium" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/tristinaquarium.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="592" /></a>We went to the <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/denvers_downtown_aquarium" title="Downtown Aquarium" rel="homepage" href="http://www.aquariumrestaurants.com/downtownaquariumdenver/flash_content/index.html">Downtown Aquarium</a> in Denver for lunch. Unfortunately, they were having a big Valentine dinner event and couldn&#8217;t seat us. But Tristin looked amazed by everything anyway!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/callihorse.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1293" title="callihorse" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/callihorse.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="966" /></a>We then wound up at the Colorado Mills Mall, where Calli and I got to ride a turbo-charged carousel. This is a huge outlet mall, and Calli and Tristin came out of Gymboree with entirely new wardrobes! <img src='http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Tuesday, we got to feed Tristin for the first time. Due to a back order issue with the pad we ordered from Fisher Price, we didn&#8217;t yet have a high chair to put him in, but that wasn&#8217;t going to stop us from getting some carrots in to this kid! I apologize that I&#8217;ve worked my way in to these pictures. Just pay attention to the cute kid with the quizzical look on his face, not me. (Like that&#8217;s hard to do! <img src='http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  )</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/firstbite.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1294" title="firstbite" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/firstbite.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="413" /></a></p>
<div id="attachment_1295" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/gimme.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1295" title="gimme" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/gimme.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="464" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Gimme that spoon, Daddy! I&#39;ll do it!</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1296" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/canihelp.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1296 " title="canihelp" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/canihelp.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="352" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Calli: Hey, Daddy! Can I help? Tristin: I told you I got it!</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1297" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/fulltummy.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1297" title="fulltummy" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/fulltummy.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="453" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">That&#39;s the face of a baby with a full tummy!</p></div>
<p style="text-align: left;">I certainly hope you enjoyed this week in review! I know I&#8217;m having fun! <img src='http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Happy Fatherhood Friday!</p>
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		<title>Looking To The Future! (or, I have 4 Valentines!)</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 15:33:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>justin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This Friday before Valentine&#8217;s Day, let me just join PJ Mullen in saying &#8216;I hate Valentine&#8217;s Day!&#8216; That being said, I find myself this Valentine season thinking about how I went from a nerdy kid who hated Valentine&#8217;s Day because I couldn&#8217;t get (read muster up the courage to get) a girl, to a husband [...]]]></description>
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<div class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 250px"><a href="http://commons.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Anthropomorphic_Valentine%2C_crica_1950.JPG"><img class=" " title="Anthropomorphic Valentine, circa 1950-1960" src="http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/3/36/Anthropomorphic_Valentine%2C_crica_1950.JPG/300px-Anthropomorphic_Valentine%2C_crica_1950.JPG" alt="Anthropomorphic Valentine, circa 1950-1960" width="240" height="206" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Image via Wikipedia</p></div>
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<p>This Friday before Valentine&#8217;s Day, let me just join PJ Mullen in saying &#8216;<a href="http://www.realmendriveminivans.com/hate-valentines-day/">I hate Valentine&#8217;s Day!</a>&#8216; That being said, I find myself this Valentine season thinking about how I went from a nerdy kid who hated Valentine&#8217;s Day because I couldn&#8217;t get (read muster up the courage to get) a girl, to a husband and father with four Valentines that hates being told there&#8217;s one particular day to celebrate your love. Although I generally do not enjoy planning the future further out than tomorrow, I find myself looking to the future for my 4 Valentines&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Tristin</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/tristinclose.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1275" title="tristinclose" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/tristinclose.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="367" /></a>It&#8217;s easy to envision a bright new world in the sparkling blue eyes of a nearly six-month old baby boy. Has it really been six months? It seems like I was just <a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/world-get-ready-for-tristin-tristin-this-is-the-world/">blogging his birth from the hospital room</a>!</p>
<p>This coming week, Tristin will eat his first solid food, or as solid as baby food can get. The days of sweet-smelling yellow poo will be over, and soon will arrive the stinky poo. I can&#8217;t wait. <img src='http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Although it&#8217;s certainly too early to see the interests that my son will have, there is a gleam of curiosity and possible mischievousness that I can&#8217;t wait to watch develop. Barely sitting up, this boy is already reaching and grabbing at anything that comes near him. Snatching the glasses off of my face is a favorite triumph, as well as grabbing at whatever food the person that&#8217;s holding him is eating. He&#8217;ll be a handful, but if I have survived his sister thus far, I think I&#8217;ll be alright.</p>
<p>Which brings me to&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Calli</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/calli-snow.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1276" title="calli snow" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/calli-snow-300x198.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="198" /></a>If anyone can be described as a fireball, Calli can. Even while watching TV, this kid is on the move. We very nearly have to tie her down at night to get her to go to bed. (Not literally, please don&#8217;t call social services. I know how things posted on the internet can get&#8230;)</p>
<p>I have never met a more compassionate child. If one of us is sick or in pain, she is the first one there to offer condolences and see if there&#8217;s something she can do to help.</p>
<p>Nothing is more important to her than her family. In fact, as I&#8217;m writing this, she&#8217;s singing &#8216;One Big Happy Family!&#8217; from a Winnie the Pooh DVD that she loves. She often reminds us that we are one big happy family.</p>
<p><strong>Kat</strong></p>
<div id="attachment_1088" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 271px"><a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/steamhatter.JPG"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1088" title="steamhatter" src="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/steamhatter-261x300.jpg" alt="" width="261" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Very rarely does the elusive Teenager allow her picture to be taken, so please excuse the reissue of her Halloween pic!</p></div>
<p>I find that it&#8217;s hard to convey what I feel about the Teenager. She&#8217;s a teenager, so she drives me crazy with the constant texting, IMing, Facebooking, and anime watching, often (literally!) at the same time.</p>
<p>But then she&#8217;ll turn around and say something that blows me away.</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t take much for us to push each other&#8217;s buttons, and my wife constantly tells me not to egg Kat on. But that&#8217;s just the relationship we&#8217;ve built, and I think it&#8217;s rock-solid.</p>
<p>Tomorrow we&#8217;re driving down to Denver to learn about the <a href="http://www.peopletopeople.com/OurPrograms/SAP/Pages/default.aspx">People to People</a> program. They want to send Kat to Australia this summer. Her dream is to work with animals, so their brochure that claims you can &#8216;cuddle with a koala&#8217; is just too irresistible to not at least go see what they have to say. I&#8217;ve heard these things are pretty expensive, but I can&#8217;t let an opportunity like this pass her by. Any ideas for fund raising is certainly welcome!</p>
<p>Which brings me to&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Bobbette</strong></p>
<p>My wife and I celebrated five years of wedded bliss this past November, and ten years of being together. Did I mention time flying earlier in this post?</p>
<p>What can I say? I just re-read my Wedding Anniversary post, &#8216;<a href="http://www.howefitz.com/blog/my-so-called-romantic-life-a-tale-of-love-at-first-sight-comic-books-and-star-trek/">My So-Called Romantic Life</a>&#8216;, and naturally, it doesn&#8217;t begin to encompass what I am truly feeling. As much as I love my kids, and as much as I center my life around them, Bobbette is the one I have made the conscious choice to be with, and she with me. Years from now, when the kids have grown and flown, we&#8217;ll have each other.</p>
<p>There is no one in the Universe I would rather have at my side. Quite literally, you would not be reading this blog if not for her. She provides me with daily inspiration and much needed encouragement. She instills me with the sense that I can accomplish anything. When I feebly make a mess of something, she&#8217;s there to pick up the pieces.</p>
<p>She&#8217;s strong when I&#8217;m weak, smart when I&#8217;m stupid, fearless when I&#8217;m  a coward.</p>
<p>I like to think that I do the same for her, but I am certain that I am getting the better end of this particular deal.</p>
<p>I have to work on Valentine&#8217;s Day, so we&#8217;ve agreed that, yes, we&#8217;ll contribute to the commercialism of the day, but we&#8217;ll do it the day after &#8211; at 50% off! <img src='http://www.howefitz.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Luckily, Calli, who is oh-so looking forward to it can&#8217;t read a calendar!</p>
<p>I&#8217;d like to take one final moment to thank all of you for sticking around and sharing this life with me. I suppose I could have said I have five Valentines, you being the fifth. Without readers, I would have given up on this whole blogging thing long ago. Without the community of friends that we have built, I&#8217;d think I was wasting my time.</p>
<p>I hope you have enjoyed reading about me and my family as much as I have enjoyed reading about many of you and yours. Have a great Fatherhood Friday, and a wonderful Valentine&#8217;s Day!</p>
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