“Hey how’s it goin’?” he asked.

“Good, you?” I answered. All the fears of high school locker rooms flooded irrationally back. Does this guy want to kick my ass? Why is he talking to me?

“Great!” he answered. “So do you have kids in here?”

How the hell would he guess that? I looked down at the Elmo beach towel I had used that night. Oh. “Yes, I do.”

“How old?”

I thought of the flack I’ve taken on this blog by a couple readers for using the term ‘step-daughter’, so I simply said, “I have a two year old and a fifteen year old.”

“Wow!” he said, “You don’t look old enough to have a fifteen year old!”

“Well,” I said, ego slightly pumped now, old high school jock prejudices slowly fading, “my wife is five years older than me. The fifteen year old is my step-daughter. So that’s how I get out of that!”

He laughed, “Aw, man. I have a step-dad. He’s the best! We still hang out all the time. I hardly ever see my real dad. I think step-dads are great!”

“Well, right now it seems like she doesn’t feel that way a lot of the time!”

“Trust me, she will appreciate you. Just keep showing an interest in her life!”

“Alright, I think I can do that!” I said. “Speaking of my family, they’re probably just about done in their locker room, I’d better get them home.”

“Cool, man. Nice meeting you!”

“Yeah, you too.”

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And I do take an interest in her life, and even though she’s fifteen and trying out this independence thing, we can still hold conversations about movies, comics (well, in her case manga), music, etc. So I think we’re on a good path.

I volunteered to teach a comic book class at the library recently, and she had to be a part of it. She wasn’t embarassed by my Green Lantern T-shirt that I wore. (Even though I tucked it in, which drives her crazy!) And afterward when I asked her what she thought, she said it was pretty cool. High praise, indeed!

Moral of the story, at least for me? No matter how old your kids get, you’ll still be learning. And even if you’re not biologically linked to your child, it’s still possible to be his/her dad!

I like this series. I’m not the typical ‘That’s not how the character should be!’ type of fan. Especially when it comes to Batman, I can pretty much deal with any incarnation that doesn’t have Joel Schumacher’s name attached to it. So a return to a more fun Batman isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Sometimes he gets so mopey that even I want to scream: “I know! You’re parents died! I get it! But you’re a grown man now, so snap out of it!” I like to go back to the time when Batman fought villains on typewriters and robots from other dimensions.

‘Brave and the Bold’ does just that. The episode I caught featured Plastic Man and Gorilla Grodd and took place mostly on Dinosaur Island. Did it add something to the Batman mythos? Not really. Was it fun? Hell, yes. That’s what we sometimes forget in our self-absorbed fanboy minds: these characters were invented in the name of escapism. They’re meant to be fun. Welcome, ‘Brave and the Bold’, and thank you for reminding me what Saturday morning used to be.

-Justin

P.S. Anyone else see the Dick Sprang influence?

Dick Sprang drew a heck of a Batman, apparently Warner Bros. Animation noticed.